I knew keeping up with the blog and everything else was going to be tough. I love writing, but with all the other things going on in our lives it had to take a back seat. Hopefully, I can etch out more time to blog. It is a nice release for me – a quiet time with no one nagging me, a time to vent my frustrations and/or share my excitement, a way to get out all the things I feel like bombarding my husband with when he walks in the the door and it probably isn’t the right time to talk his ear off but I haven’t spoken with another adult in 12+ hours so I just start rambling…
To catch you up with life over here:
- Ethan is believed to have allergies….BAD allergies. Other than living with the sister 2 years younger than me and seeing her frustration with asthma and allergies most of our childhood, I really don’t have much to go by as far as how bad it is – it just seems awful. He is miserable from the moment he wakes up to the moment he goes to sleep (and even after he is asleep, some nights). He still plays with the kids and wants to be outside, but being outside makes everything 100 times worse. And today there is an Air Quality Alert, so I will be keeping him inside. Tomorrow I am taking him for a blood draw to see if he is, specifically, allergic to our dog. Apparently even though Jack has been around since before the kids were born, Ethan could still develop an allergy to him. So, our doctor said we could do a specific panel for that type of allergy. In all honestly, I hope it is the dog. Not that I hate our dog (although, I do have my moments!!), but if we can eliminate the allergen that would be fantastic! If it is something outside he is allergic to (seasonal), obviously we cannot completely eliminate it and he will be miserable every Spring. He is currently on a daily antihistamine and a minimum of two albuterol nebulizer treatments. And for the past three days he has had a fever of over 101. Ears, throat and chest do not indicate any virus, per the doctor….so who knows what it is. I just feel awful for him, and we are both exhausted by the end of the day. The bigger kids are also a little frustrated with not being able to go riding their bikes as much as they’d like because I am keeping Ethan inside more than usual.
- Lily is still getting up almost every night. I received a suggestion from a few friends, that either dealt with children that awoke every night or had a close family member that went through it, to create a bed on the floor next to our bed. She is allowed to come in whenever and just lie there to sleep. The goal is for her to feel in control (and to not have to wake us every.single.night.). There have been a few nights, when she is absolutely exhausted, that she slept through the night in her room. I thought maybe that was it – she needed to be completely worn out to sleep well. But, she defied my theory last week after an exhausting day and still came in at night. We don’t talk about it during the day except to congratulate her when she is able to stay in her bed all night. I have heard from those that suggested the bed on the floor that it could take months before she feels able to just stay in her own bed and not come in our room. I am thankful for the bed suggestion, as it seems to help with less waking of all three of us at night, BUT I also still feel bad that she is waking up still and not able to get a full night’s sleep every night. I am pretty certain she knows we love her regardless of her sleeping habits :), and we try not to talk negatively about the night waking, so she feels ok about herself. Today is exactly two months of the night waking….
- We are done with school for the Summer!! Iris and Lily are going to journal almost every day this Summer to keep up with writing (Iris dislikes writing!!), read and visit the library at least once a week, and not be allowed to veg out in front of the tv every day. 🙂 BUT, as far as sitting to do work for a set amount of time we are done til August!! It feels great but it also feels a little chaotic, as we are trying to figure out a good routine or schedule for Summer time.
- Arthur won a race!! We were super excited to watch him come in first (by a landslide….no one was anywhere close to him!!) in a 5K. He wasn’t happy with his time, BUT we are very proud. He has been working hard on training to lower his mile time and I think he is doing great (although, I am not a runner and anything faster than me seems awesome!). He has a coach and is running with the New Balance Team….which is an awesome accomplishment for having a crazy work schedule, driving two hours a day at least to get to/from work, and having a big family. He is actually running a race at the zoo today; we were going to attend and cheer him on but with Ethan’s fever and the air quality alert, we decided the kids and I would stay home. 😦
- Iris and Lily were baptized two weeks ago!! Iris asked Jesus into her heart a while ago but the timing never worked for Arthur to be off on a Sunday they were doing baptisms. Lily more recently asked Jesus into her heart, and the timing worked for them to both be baptized on a Sunday Arthur was off of work!! Some of my family was able to attend, as well as my in-laws. It was a very special evening – for the girls, as they stepped out and publicly shared their decision, and for Arthur and I, as we were able to witness our oldest girls make the decision to do as Jesus commanded us. I was a proud Mama for sure!! (And, to top it off, the lady that read our girls’ testimonies during the baptism time was actually one of the ladies I work with through Melaleuca….it is pretty special to have business partners that are Christians and can share in our joy about our children’s growth in their faith!!)
Those are the major things I can think of that I would have rambled about had I been posting the past few weeks. Tomorrow, I should have a menu plan up for the week. We have made changes again with our foods. I am purchasing eggs from a family at church (can’t get more local than that!!). Our meat will be local as well (have been slacking on that lately). Most of our shopping is done at Aldi, even our organic products! And what I can’t get at Aldi, I am getting at Costco or Meijer…they both carry good organic produce items that Aldi doesn’t have. I am mostly sticking with the dirty dozen to buy as organic when I can (and corn, even though corn isn’t listed as a dirty item it is mostly gmo at the store so I would like to steer clear of that for now) and organic dairy. I decided not to buy organic milk because of things I have read about organic milk not being much of a benefit. And Aldi’s milk indicates it is from cows NOT given growth hormone. The only I worry about is the antibiotics. 😦 BUT, organic milk is $6 a gallon, compared to $2.49 a gallon for non-organic. Soooo, for now we are going with the $2.49, unfortunately. Some of the kids drink organic almond milk instead, so if we cut down on our milk purchase I may go back to buying organic. We’ll see. And we buy Melaleuca items for our vitamins, sports nutrition, and some snacks, as well as our household products (everything except toilet paper and diapers). So, that’s what we are doing….for now. 🙂 It changes often.
Time for a shower and get going on the laundry. We have church tonight – a prayer service in the new sanctuary, where families will be writing our prayers for the church on the sub-floor. I think this is such a neat idea because the prayers will be there forever under the flooring! I love our church. I really do. So much passion for the Lord and encouragement for our daily walks. They really encourage fellowship with each other outside of the Sunday services, and we love our small group that meets twice a month. Great families (a lot of big families, too! which is awesome) that have kids for our children to grow up with! Very thankful we have our church!